Saturday 28 March 2009

Infidelity..... x

Infidelity can be defined as any violation of the mutually agreed-upon rules or boundaries of a relationship, and is a breach of faith in an interpersonal relationship.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infidelity

When two people are in a committed relationship, i dont think there is any excuse at all for cheating with someone else. Nothing good comes from it and people always end up getting hurt! When entering into a relationship people are happy and satisfied so if things go a bit 'stale' then speaking to the partner could possibly improves things instead of going out and finding someone else to make you happy. If a relationship was happy once then there is no reason that with some work it can be happy again. Cheating is an easy and a cowards way out! How can someone look someone in the eyes and tell them they love them and then go and cheat with someone else?!

When looking at infidelity it has been found that with men the affair is normally just about sex whereas females who have affairs often have feelings for the person they are cheating with. This is a stereotypical view but in the majority of cases is right.

Luckily i've never been cheated on (well that i know of lol) but if it happened then i definately wouldnt give anyone a second chance! If someone can cheat once and get away with then there is nothing to stop them from doing it again.....

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